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10 Ways a Good Woman Makes You Better.

Posted by yoMcLovin on December 31, 2010

When it comes to relationships, all any guy wants is a good woman.

Unfortunately, many of us have to go through a number of not-so-good women before we find the one that’s really worth the effort. Women say they have to kiss a lot of frogs before they find their prince. Well, men have to put up with a lot of princesses before they find a partner.

But when a guy finds the right girl it’s as if all the other aspects of his life fall into place. That’s the effect a good woman can have on you. A healthy and supportive relationship can make you a Better Man.

No.10 She makes you socialize

One of the top 10 ways a good woman improves you is by making you socialize. A lot of guys have a solitary streak. We like our privacy and value our alone time, but we can sometimes get so comfortable in our loner routine that we forget how much fun socializing can be. That’s why a good woman is so important.

Women are more social than men. Sociologists at the University of Manchester say that women are better at making friends; they form “deeper” and stronger connections than men do. Women also make up the majority of users on most major social networks. For instance, 57% of Facebook users are women. Women have an inclination toward community and society that can counter the solitary streak of even the most introverted guy.

A good woman will drag your lazy ass out to a party or to a bar, even when you put up a fuss. You’ll grumble about it while you’re getting ready, but when you’re out having a good time, you’ll thank her for it.

No.9 She makes you better in bed

How does a good woman make you better in bed? She challenges you. She keeps things fresh. She pushes the limits. When you’re in a relationship, by necessity, you have to keep sex interesting. Boredom is the enemy of monogamy. A relationship with a good woman, then, will necessarily involve sexual experimentation and lots of playtime between the sheets. Your sex life could become more adventurous than it was during even your wildest of oat-sowing phases.

No.8 She keeps you normal

Every guy has his hang-ups. We all have our own particular neuroses and insecurities. Maybe you’re a jealous guy or you periodically struggle with confidence. We all go through it. The problem is that, if left unchecked, our hang-ups can become serious obstacles to our happiness.

So, another one of the top 10 ways a good woman can improve you is by keeping those neuroses under control. Having another person by your side — someone who loves you — can be the cure-all for all those counterproductive tendencies.

No.7 She keeps you honest

Newsflash: sometimes men lie. We lie to our partners. We sometimes even lie to ourselves. We know it’s not a good thing, but we do it anyway. A good woman, however, keeps you honest. That’s another of the top 10 ways a good woman improves you.

She’ll make sure you’re telling the truth, not only to her, but to yourself. If you’re making excuses for why you can’t get that promotion, she’ll call you on it. If you’re wallowing in self-pity, she’ll call you on that too. A good woman knows you — maybe better than you know yourself.

No.6 She keeps you healthy

Keeping you healthy is another one of the top 10 ways a good woman improves you. Women are often more health-conscious than us guys are.

They count the calories in a salad like we count the strips of bacon on a cheeseburger.

A good woman is more likely to keep you eating right and going to the gym. She may even inspire you to stay healthy without pressuring or cajoling whatsoever. After all, having a hot, fit girlfriend is incentive enough to stay in good shape.

No.5 She focuses you on the future

Some relationships are transient, temporary or even disposable. You know them when you’re in them; they have an expiration date. A good relationship isn’t like that, though. While a good relationship is lots of fun in the present, it also gets you thinking about the future, and not only about the predictable stuff — like marriage and kids — but also about all the big picture stuff, like your career and life goals. And having a plan is never a bad thing.

No.4 She keeps you motivated

Not only is a good woman going to keep you focused on your goals, she’s also going to help you get there. It’s another one of the top 10 ways a good woman improves you. She’s a trusted adviser, and your head cheerleader. She has your career in mind. She keeps your eye not just on promotions and advancement, but also on your job satisfaction and happiness. Whether it’s reassurance or a swift kick in the pants, she’ll tell you what you need to hear when you need to hear it.

Moreover, when you have a good woman, you want to make her proud of you, and that’s maybe the biggest motivator of all.

No.3 She challenges you to try new things

A good woman improves you. She helps you become a more complete human being. Often that just means exposing you to things you’ve never tried before. Maybe it’s as simple as trying new foods or taking up yoga. Maybe it’s going on a backpacking excursion in Europe, or skydiving.

The point is that it’s both easier and more fun to try new things when you have someone by your side. You’re more likely to take chances when you’re with someone you trust. Ultimately, a good woman will help you become better-rounded.

No.2 She provides stability

There’s a lot to be said for stability. It’s one of the great virtues of a committed relationship. Consequently, we consider stability among the most important of our top 10 ways a good woman improves you. Think about it: Once you have the romantic and sexual part of your life locked down, once you’re no longer chasing phone numbers and dealing with breakup drama, how much more energy will you now have to focus on other areas?

When you have a good woman by your side — someone who will support you and stand by you through thick and thin — you’ll finally be able to open your own business or take a year to travel the globe. With a good relationship as your foundation, you are in a better position to pursue all your dreams and ambitions.

No.1 She sees the best in you

Topping our list of the top 10 ways a good woman improves you: She sees the best in you. When a great woman treats you like you’re the most capable and deserving guy in the world, it’s hard not to feel like the most capable and deserving guy in the world.

In other words, a good woman not only sees the best in you, she also helps you see the best in yourself.

If she’s after your money, she’s not a good woman — here are the Top 10: Signs She’s A Gold Digger. And if you’ve found a good woman, you should consider our Top 10: Places To Propose.

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5 Reason’s He Hasn’t Made You His Girlfriend

Posted by yoMcLovin on November 24, 2010

It’s relationship season! Maybe it’s the cold weather and women want to be warm or maybe they just want a Christmas gift. Whatever it is, it’s that time of year where women actually want a boyfriend. With that said there are a bunch of reasons why some of you women are still single. Here is the list:

  • Because You Live In The Hood: No one wants to get robbed when they come over your house! Hotel rooms are expensive and who wants to shake out their clothes for roaches after sex? I once visited this chicks house and was literally scared to place any of my stuff on the floor because I saw two things. A roach and roach spray. When you actually have to buy spray that means it’s a problem.
  • The Sex Is Wack: I believe I speak for all men when I say I refuse to settle down with a chick who has terrible sex. Ladies don’t take it personal some men and women just are not fits for each other. I know there are certain women in this world that ever I can’t satisfy. The ManXilla and their vag just don’t agree or like each other!
  • She Wants A Boyfriend Too Bad: I was once in a situation where I might have had the best girl I’ve ever dealt with on lock, but she kept pressuring me to be her man. I wasn’t ready, I didn’t want to hurt her, and damn it I wasn’t ready. She gave me 2 months ‘being friends’ then started talking forever! Dicknotized!
  • Jealousy. It’s a weak emotion. The last thing a man want to be do, is be with a weak woman. Now jealousy can go both ways, but at the end of the day no man wants to be accused, nagged or bothered because a chick believes her vag isn’t good enough to keep her man at home.
  • She Has Kids: Asides from the 13 Great Reasons To Avoid Dating Single Mothers, dating someone with kids is very hard. It may have nothing to do with the child being bad, ugly or even the child’s father. It might just deal with a person’s ability to give someone else other than the child time. People are needy and require a lot of time, and when you have a kid… It’s hard to divide time.

Why are you single? Is it by choice? Would You Rather Be In A Relationships? If someone dumped you for one of these reasons how would you feel? Let’s Talk.

 

 

 

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10 REASONS YOUR WOMAN MIGHT CHEAT ON YOU!!

Posted by yoMcLovin on October 24, 2010

Diane Lane did it in Unfaithful. Annette Bening did it in American Beauty. Sarah Jessica Parker did it on Sex and the City. And they’re not the only ones. Although women haven’t surpassed men on the cheating scale, more married women than ever before are jumping in the sack with someone other than their husbands. According to an American Sexual Behavior study, 14% of married women have cheated at least once, compared to 22% of married men. Not that we’re condoning two-timing from either party, but here are the top 10 reasons women cheat.

 

 

10. Not enough sex

Remember the good old days when you could stay up forever fooling around? Then responsibility entered the mix — and kids — and before you knew it, sleep was more important than sex. Well, women want to feel wanted. If you’re not making her feel that way, she could seek it elsewhere. To keep that spark alive, ask her out on date nights, send her provocative e-mails at lunch, and by all means, don’t let life get in the way of kissing, cuddling and sex.

9. Being the bad girl

Just as men feel the urge to sow their wild oats, some women have an inner sex kitten just waiting to be unleashed — and when the beast escapes from the cage, look out. This frisky behavior usually rears its ugly head in response to some sort of life change — major weight loss, new job, new friends, mid-life crisis, etc. Keep the lines of communication open and she’ll be more likely to talk to you about what’s going on instead of spilling her guts to a stranger in the night.

8. Self-esteem

Sex can be an instant pick-me-up; a self-esteem booster that makes women feel sexier, more beautiful and more loved. If your wife or girlfriend has self-esteem issues, it doesn’t mean she’s automatically going to cheat — and it’s certainly not your fault if she does — but there are ways to make her feel secure in the relationship that could help her from straying. Pay attention to her, ask her questions and don’t hold back on compliments — a little flattery goes a long way with women.

7. Revenge/payback for past wrongs

No, you didn’t cheat, but whether you blew your retirement fund in Vegas or got caught in a big lie, you did break her trust (and, possibly, her heart). She feels wounded and betrayed — and wants to hurt you the same way you hurt her. To regain her trust, it’s not enough just to tell her you’re sorry; you have to show her. Actions speak louder than words.

6. Lack of intimacy

You have it all: the house, the two-car garage and the two-and-a-half bathrooms — at least on the outside. But inside, the relationship is lacking the one thing women want most: intimacy. It’s not just sex that makes women feel connected in a relationship; it’s touching, kissing, cuddling, and communicating. Women crave it, and she could seek it elsewhere if she’s not getting it at home. To improve intimacy, spend quality time together, give her a foot massage, make a romantic dinner for two — anything that will give her a sense of unity and closeness.

5. Feeling neglected/ignored/underappreciated

Women wear many hats in a relationship — housekeeper, errand-runner, grocery shopper, babysitter, etc. When she feels more like a maid than a girlfriend/wife, that’s when she could stray. The fact that you spend all your time at work or on the golf course gives her double reason to seek attention elsewhere. No, you can’t quit your job, but you can thank her for all her selfless deeds — and do your share around the house.

4. Your emotional withdrawal

Women are emotional beings. Not only do they need physical support, but they also need emotional support. Once you retreat from the relationship, she sees it as a sign that things are through — a breakup is inevitable. So, she’s not really cheating, she’s moving on. To avoid this, be present in the relationship. Yes, that means sharing your icky feelings, but it’s better than the alternative, right?

3. Bedroom boredom

Sex can become monotonous if you let it — the same position; the same setting; the same person. An affair adds adventure and gets her adrenalin flowing. To avoid routine, avoid repetition. Sweep her away for the weekend, make out at the movies, kiss her for no reason at all… The unexpected adds excitement.

2. Exit strategy

Instead of breaking up with you, she cheats on you. That way she doesn’t have to deal with the broken relationship, which is much harder to fix. An affair is the easy way out — or at least that’s how she sees it. That’s another reason communication is key. Let her know that she can talk to you about anything and that you love her enough to work through any bumps in the relationship road.

1. Revenge for your cheating

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Because you cheated, she wants to get back at you and give you a dose of your own medicine. Cheating is her vengeance, her chance to even the playing field. No, you can’t undo your indiscretion, but you can ask for her forgiveness, assure her it will never happen again and suggest couples therapy to help you get through this tough time.

Her cheating heart

When you add up all the reasons women cheat, it’s usually her heart (or her ego) that needs healing, not her libido. Keep the lines of communication open, be supportive and encouraging and work at keeping that spark ignited. In other words: Don’t give her a reason to stray.

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10 Qualities A Man Looks For In A Woman?

Posted by yoMcLovin on October 21, 2010

What Does A Man Look For In A Woman.”  Even though every man is different I can honestly say we all look for the same qualities in our women and no it’s not just sex either. Some men focus on certain qualities more than others. But all and all there is a 10-point check list that most men triple check before choosing a mate. (Keep Reading)

10. Independence

  • No man wants a woman they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if she’s had a rough day at work, it’s great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can’t seem to wipe her butt without you handing her the toilet paper, she will eventually make you feel like you’re suffocating, which is a surefire way to get you running out the nearest exit. On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can stand on her own two feet, both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you – while still missing you, of course – then she must be a great woman.

9. Intelligence

  • I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the ditzy dumb-blonde chick routine gets real old, real fast. Instead of being the one in total control, you’ll find yourself trying to figure out what she’s really thinking behind those glazed eyes of hers (or if she’s actually thinking at all). An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won’t let you get bored of her. Besides, it’s nice to have something to talk about between all that toe-curling, spine-busting sex.

8. Sexuality

  • While we’re on the topic, a great woman has to be sexually compatible (freaky-deeky, if you’re nasty) with you. For instance, if you’re into some freaky, nasty froggy-style agendas and she’s more the “hold each other until the sun comes up” type, that’s a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page or, at least, she has to be willing to wear a smile with some whipped cream from time to time. Of course, this doesn’t imply that she has to know all the precise moves right away; it simply means that you and she have an undeniable attraction toward each other, and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues). It is important that you please each other in the bedroom, or on top of the dryer – whatever the case may be.

7. Attractiveness

  • I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great woman will not only want to look good for you, but also for her. She should always look her best and be well put together – matching draws is a definite plus (we notice when you put that work in). Men have to be proud to have their women on their arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn’t mean that she has to be a Halle Berry clone. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so if you think her big ol’ booty svelte figure or nappy kitchen uncontrollable curls are beautiful, you’re allowed.

6. Respect

  • This is very important. Your partner must respect you. This means that they listen to you, even if they don’t necessarily agree with what you’re saying. And, of course, they never try to humiliate or demean you in any way, shape or form. A phenomenal person won’t ever cause scenes in public or in front of your friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with you in private. If they respect you, chances are that they will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations, which is definitely a good thing.

5. Non-Controlling

  • Do not – I repeat – DO NOT get involved with someone who tries to get you to eat goat cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up the things you love most. You will end up resenting them more than you can imagine. A good partner lets you be you in all your glory, dirty draws and all. They have to realize the differences that men and women have and should allow you to be yourself.

4. Non-Complaining

  • There is nothing worse someone who nags! A great woman knows this and chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to speak up and when to let it slide. You don’t want a woman who will give you hell for leaving a couple of dishes in the sink occasionally. However, if you’re shacking up and you stay out all night without calling her, and she lets you have it, then you’re setting yourself up for disaster. This is a situation that nobody would let slide – not even a great woman.

3. Pleasant

  • A great woman will not only help your mother in the kitchen, listen to your long stories about nothing and hang out with your friends, but she will enjoy it. She’ll make a real effort to get to know and love the most important people in your life. And she won’t try to get you to ditch your best friends. She’ll actually empathize with your homeboy getting dumped and suggest that the crew take him out to cheer him up. Not only that, but your friends won’t roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she’ll be joining y’all when she gets off work (yes, women like this do exist).

2. Loving

  • If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her. A woman who doesn’t try to change you is hard to find. Of course, all women have their slightly annoying habits (leaving a drop of juice in the fridge) that their mate has to contend with, but if she really loves you, she will be able to cope with these. Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks at you and treats you on an on a daily basis. If the sight of you doesn’t seem to faze her either way, and she doesn’t really seem to care about what you have to say, she’s either playing very hard to get, or sees you as just some guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up, there’s no denying that she loves you.

1. She makes you want to be a better man.

  • Stop making that face… any man who has a great woman or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn’t have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be love.

Ladies this right here is the key to love, if you are this woman then you probably already have a man. If you aren’t this woman, become her… fast.

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DJ Rob E Rob Presents: ‘The Official Fabolous Mixtape’ 72 TRACKs

Posted by yoMcLovin on October 19, 2010

 

TRACK LIST
1. Intro
2. Imma Do It
3. Breath
4. Breath (Rob E Rob Wasted Mix)
5. Computer Love
6. Make Me Better
7. Throw It A Bag
8. Rockin That Thing
9. Makin Love
10. Shawty Is A 10
11. Girl Got A Girl Friend
12. Dueces (Remix)
13. For The Money
14. Can’t Deny It (Rob E Rob Mix)
15. One Day
16. F*** You
17. Jay Z(Interlude)
18. Make You Know
19. Ride For This
20. Some Niggaz
21. B.I.G. (Interlude)
22. Right Now
23. Get Right
24. You Be Killin Em
25. Forever
26. Say Ahh
27. When The Money Goes
28. Super Woman
29. Trade It All
30. Can’t Let You Go
31. I’m So Into You
32. Everyday Everywhere
33. Baby
34. How We Get It
35. Get Right
36. I’m Ill
37. Youngin
38. I Usually Don’t
39. Take You Home
40. Girls
41. It’s Alright
42. Kiss Yo Ass Good Bye
43. Keep It Gangsta
44. Body Ya
45. Gangsta
46. Real Talk
47. Swag Surfin
48. Lemonade
49. Lloyd Banks(Interlude)
50. Lights Out
51. Do The Damn Thang
52. Side Ways
53. Diamonds On My Damn Chain
54. There He Go
55. Gangstas Don’t Play
56. Pachanga
57. I Miss My Love
58. 1st Time
59. It’s My Time
60. More Than Love
61. Click And Spark
62. Think Y’All Know
63. Now Ride
64. Now What
65. The Bad Guy
66. It Gotta Be Thug
67. Suicide
68. Tonight
69. Church
70. I Aint In Love
71. Don’t Stop, Won’t Stop
72. Outro

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A Man Needs More From His Woman Than Just Good Food And Good Head

Posted by yoMcLovin on October 11, 2010

I need more than just good head and good food. During my time being a sexual intellectual I have discovered that some women think giving good head and making a mean ass sandwich makes for a good woman. I’m sorry but it does not. A woman can cook like Betty Crocker, and suck one like Heather Hunter, and still get left. I hear women say she gave her man home cooked meals and she swallowed. Yet he still strayed. Because contrary to popular belief most of us men are just as complex as women, whether we like to admit it or not.

I know personally I need more than just good head and good food. I know women that can whip up a meal that would put anything made on food network to shame. That’s one of the benefits of living in the south, yet things didn’t work out between us. I know other women who could make Marie Luv look like a novice at giving her man oral sensation. Yet in still they are single like George Washington’s money. This is because men need more than just good food and good head.

Sure a way to man’s heart is through his stomach and pants, but we need to feel like a woman is there for us. Not there for the things we can provide. That hits home for me because of what I do and who I am. This is a new chapter in my life where I am becoming a bit more aware of why a woman is with me. Is it because she understands I can provide her with everything she needs in a man, or because she wants to enjoy the finer things in life on someone else’s dollar? Women need to let their man know that she is there for him no matter what! Even if he can’t pay her electric bill, she should still love the guy.

Women also need to be able to fulfill a man’s need to be the king of the world. I need a girl on my arm that is going to enhance my brand. While I yearn to be in love with a woman who can cook, give good head and is there for me no matter what. If her body resembles the indigenous people of a remote South American rain forest than our relationship is not going to work. As shallow as this may sound, men need to be able to bring his woman out in public and be proud of her. Looks are important to some men, and other’s not as much. It all boils down to ‘is this the right person for you’.

Over the years I found myself settling for second best, for the fish I caught and stayed with because I was starving. From personal experience I am going to tell everyone reading this blog that it is totally ok to be picky; totally okay to have high standards. Ask yourself do you think Bill Gates settled on his version of Windows? Did Steve Jobs settle on the final version of the iPhone4? Probably not! Is your love not worth more than an expensive phone?

So I’m still looking for my Cinderella, The girl who is going to suck and fcuk me, cook a great meal, be there for me, and help me shit on any other dude around because she’s the hottest woman in the building. I also need a woman whose goals are on par with my goals and I need a bunch more from a woman. Now as far as what I am going to offer my girl. That’s a post for another day. But it’s coming because women need just as much as men need when it comes to love, if not more. #AWESOME

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5 Annoying Things Guys Do on Facebook (Presented by Cosmopolitan)

Posted by yoMcLovin on September 1, 2010

 

According to Cosmopolitan We do the following annoying things………

 

1. They Hide Their Relationship Status
The beauty of Facebook is that we can instantly find out if a guy is available or off-limits. No 30-minute talk in a bar, trying to suss out if he has a girlfriend waiting for him at home. But if that info is kept a secret, we’re forced to look through and analyze his photos and wall posts to figure it out — which makes us feel like stalkers. Guys: If you’re single, do us both a favor and make that info public knowledge. And if you’re part of a twosome, own up to it. Especially when we’re one of the two.

2. They Block Their Photos
We can understand a guy wanting to keep certain people from viewing his pictures. But seeing as how we’re not his mom, boss, or pastor, it bugs us when we can’t see a dude’s photos. Here’s the thing: We always imagine the worst. So when we’re kept in the dark and can’t click through a guy’s albums, we imagine he’s blowing lines, hooking up with two girls at once, or running around naked at a party. Unfair, but true. He’s not saving his reputation by blocking his photos. In fact, not being able to click on them makes us think a little less of him.

3. They Ask Us Out…in Front of All Our Friends
Next time a guy gets tempted to leave us a wall post that reads, “Let me know if you want to hang out sometime,” he should imagine standing up in front of a room full of our family, friends, ex-boyfriends, and coworkers and then asking us out. Because that’s essentially what he’s doing. We don’t want all 889 of our friends to be a part of the courting. Oh and P.S., we’d appreciate a little more effort. You know, maybe an old-fashioned e-mail or text like we see in those historic romantic comedies.

4. They Detag Themselves in Our Photos
This is the online equivalent of a guy pretending he’s just asking for directions when his friends catch him talking to us. There is something strangely offensive about scrolling through your recently uploaded albums and discovering that a guy you tagged has detagged himself. If a photo of the BBQ he ate last Saturday is profile-worthy, we can’t help but wonder why the nice shots with us get shunned.

5. They Let Their Stupidity Show
What is it about Facebook that makes even cool, down-to-earth guys post quotes like “It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog,” write status updates that read, “Matt is giving out free mammograms,” and upload shirtless photos of themselves with wannabe-model gazes that they obviously took in the bathroom mirror? Maybe they think it’s funny or impressive, but the behavior only makes us roll our eyes.

Source: Cosmopolitan

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5 Crazy Things Women Do On Facebook

Posted by yoMcLovin on September 1, 2010

The Facebook phenomenon has allowed you to reconnect with your best friend from elementary school, keep up with your buddy’s travels and get out of hours-long phone conversations with your aunt. It truly is a remarkable tool. However, as with most things, there is a dark side to Facebook. While your male brain may not have tapped in to the full manipulation potential of this seemingly innocuous social networking tool, chances are several of the women you know have. Women are trained in the art of creating, maintaining and controlling relationships, and Facebook is just one more resource they can use to keep tabs on and influence people. Here’s a list of some crazy things women do on facebook.

1. Women set up fake profiles to follow exes on Facebook

This one may seem a bit extreme, but it is certainly not unheard-of for a woman to set up a fake Facebook persona in order to creep on her ex’s profile. At the very least, she might get a mutual friend to allow her a little access to an ex’s Facebook page. Whether you broke up badly or it was mostly mutual, if you don’t keep in touch, she probably wants to know what you’re up to. Instead of calling or e-mailing you, it’s easier and less embarrassing to scope out your profile while you are blissfully unaware that she is checking up on you. If you want to prevent this from happening, don’t add any strangers to your friends list. If you have a friend you know is still in touch with her, keep your interactions limited.

2. Women manipulate through Facebook photos

The photos a woman posts on her profile can be innocent — or they can be totally manipulative. Another crazy thing women do on Facebook is to put up embarrassing or compromising photos of people that have gotten on her bad side. When a guy breaks up with a girl and the next day photos of him in one of her dresses hit her profile, it’s not only vindictive, but also pretty immature.

A woman might also use her Facebook photo albums to present an image of herself that doesn’t exactly match up to reality. In her photos she might appear more sexy, more adventurous and altogether more exciting than she is in real life.

3. Women post passive-aggressive Facebook status updates

The Facebook status update can share big news with your friends or the mundane activities of your day, but for some women they can also serve an emotionally manipulative purpose. Whether it’s because she hates confrontation or she just wants the world to know what a jerk her boyfriend is, some women use their status updates to air complaints about their relationship instead of sitting down and talking it out directly. For example: “Valerie visited the jewelery store and is tired of waiting!!!!” could be a not-so-subtle clue that she doesn’t want to wait for that engagement ring much longer. Post-breakup, a woman might post status updates that hint at a crazy social life: “Melanie is exhausted from a crazy night!” or “Jessica is having a great day,” are both the types of messages that say a lot more when they come right after a big breakup.

4. Women post ambiguous relationship photos

It’s not uncommon to see pictures of women with their arms around their friends, kissing them on the cheek, whether their friends are men or women. For some, these may be innocuous expressions of affection for their good friends, but for others they could be an attempt to elicit an envious response from their partners. These ambiguous photos with other guys could also cause other people to question the strength of her relationship with her boyfriend.

If it’s a single girl posting pics of her getting close to guys without making it clear whether or not they are dating, it can throw people off when they are thinking about making a move, causing them to be unsure of whether or not she’s already taken.

5. Posting a fake relationship status

Some unattached women choose “in a relationship” for their profile just so people won’t start matchmaking or single-girl-pitying. A single woman of a certain age is a prime target for people who think everyone should be paired off in “happily ever after” relationships. Some single women even arrange with one of their close girlfriends to be each other’s “in a relationship with” person to avoid this kind of condescending sympathy. They’d rather raise questions about their sexual orientation than leave the space blank.

Women do crazy things on facebook

Facebook can be a force for good when it’s used responsibly, but it can also be destructive to a relationship or a reputation if the person who wields the power thinks she can do so with impunity. Unfortunately, if she’s determined to keep it up, there’s not much you can do about any of these behaviors other than expressing your displeasure and asking her to cut it out. If she’s your girlfriend she should have enough consideration for you to hear you out. If she’s your ex, all you can do is kick yourself in the ass for agreeing to try on that dress in the first place.

Source: askmen.com

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